The Journey From Me To Myself....: Most Important #Questions #Answered

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Good Nature Should Be Person Independent, and It should lie in Self because 98% Percent People in this World depends on other people, for their happiness, sadness, Pain, Pleasure, Anger, Calmness. It is no Big deal to be happy with the persons who is making you happy. But art of living is to be happy with the person who is taking your every work in negative sense. No Body blames themselves for their sadness and that's why they can't turn into happiness. For Ex: If I say, because of you I am unhappy. It means you have the control of my happiness and sadness and I am only in waiting mode. When will you do this and this and this and I will become happy. I have left all the responsibilities on your Hand. It is not possible to be good natured in this kind of situations. Taking responsibilities on your hand for your problems and learning the art to be calm in difficult situations with make you Good natured and in future you will be the cause for bringing changes to your environment.

You don't need to always speak the truth, but you should not tell a lie. Like if you lie you are by default making a habit of telling lie and you can't hide because this is nature everybody comes to know "what is truth" and "what is lie". Nobody says but everybody understands that , that person is lying. And they change their nature with that kind of persons. If you speak lie for increasing your popularity you will live a bad life, because you are popular for the thing you have not done. and you will be empty from inside. But if you tell the truth, and then everybody accepts you with your reality than you are going to be great and inspiring person for your surrounding.
If you have one friend who knows your reality and still is your friend, is your real friend. Many people will leave you for your reality, because some realities/truths are hard to accept but after we speak it. We become fearless and have genuinely in our self.

Saying No, Without Hurting is an Art. There are many different situation and I will directly give you the basic answer: Say No, By showing sympathy in oneself. Like if your friends are calling you for party and for some reason you are not attending it. Never say, I will not attend it. I am not coming sorry. This will put a bad impression of you. Instead you can say,"I am very excited to come but I can't come due to this and that, sorry but I will surely join next time. I am very unlucky". This will reverse the Game.

To be confident at every situation is also an Art. To be Confident you should know yourself well. Ask question which people should be asking to you, critize yourself and give proper answers to yourself so that people who are going to critize you doesn't put any impact. You should know yourself more than anyone in this earth. Nobody will stop judging you and there's no reason you should force them to do so.
For Being confident you should know the basic things which makes us confident like don't speak like fools, be in yourself, laugh at the time of laughing*, observe in a wonderful way, don't smell :), dress well, have a genuine smile in your face(think of wonderful moments), talk extrovert(remember there is no right or wrong in words,you should know every word you speak is right), be calm and judge positively. Being negative can instantly ruin the Game and you will again go in different World.
The Thing which don't remind you of time is the thing which you like. Like,"whenever I play Chess, I forgot there are more than 2 peoples in the world", " This is basic.
The Thing which constantly reminds you of time and you are urging to leave it, is the thing you are forcibly doing. But if the thing which you are forcibly doing is good for you, than do not stop keep going. You will get result which you will Like.
Muhammad Ali Said,"I hate every minute of training, but I said, "don't quit", suffer now and live you life as a champion."

Changing routine is very big deal, it should start from changing small things in your life. If you will change routine directly you will surrender within few days.

This Topic is very deep, this Topic cannot be explained within a day or week . Answer is simple "God is Light" . But what is god where is its home? and many other possible questions answer is very deep. You should join Brahma Kumaris if you want to know the true answer.

If possible, you should leave those situations, you should always be absent in aggressive situations because its no good to explain peoples, this is good and this is good. But if you want to handle than you should have mercy on them else you will also get into it. I am saying one more time, don't explain on those situations just be calm and leave the situation. Don't cross or reply to their words, they are not in their control.

When beggar begs, always see the condition and understand for what to give to beggar. Not always beggar needs money, some just asking to beggar how are you is sufficient. Beggar are not animals, they are like us, with least money and almost no comforts. So always have mercy on them, give your clothes which you don't use, give food, and give knowledge which is the biggest give among everything. But give knowledge according to situation, don't give spiritual knowledge like do meditation, God is light. Else teach them how can they change their future?

Once again the same you should have the better knowledge for yourself, speak less but powerful in debates. When someone is taunting you, you just have to understand if he is right or he is stuck ed because of your success. you should show mercy towards them from heart, they are sad and needs some people who understands them. Never argue, in your limitations or your skills, be calm in both the situations.
"Silence is golden, when you don't have powerful words to Speak" - Muhammad Ali